I cheated on my girlfriend and now drunk cheating lover says she’s pregnant
Dear Deedle: I cheated on my girlfriend one drunken night by having passionate sex with a woman I was chatting with in a pub.
It was fun, but I regretted it the next morning.
i am very unlucky This is the only time I had an affair and got someone pregnant.
A stupid moment plunged me into a world of sorrow.
My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 years since college.
We’re both 24 and feel like we couldn’t play on the field.
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A few months ago, we went out for a friend’s birthday.
I Got Drunk And Had Sex With A Girl I Met At A Tavern.
We returned to her apartment having barely slept.
But once I calmed down, I realized how much I loved her.
I apologized to the girl, but I told her that I should never see her again.
I thought I got away with it. I felt guilty but knew that telling her girlfriend would only hurt her.
Then last week the girl I slept with sent me a message.
She told me she was pregnant and has never had sex with anyone else, so I’m pretty sure the baby is mine.
I asked if she was going to have a baby and she said she didn’t know.
I honestly want her to have an abortion. Her relationship with her girlfriend will be broken once she has her baby.
And I’m not ready to be a father. I don’t have enough income to support my children.
I don’t know what to do. I couldn’t stop thinking about this and my girlfriend realized I wasn’t me.
I always wish I could go back in time and resist that woman.
Diedle said: We all make mistakes, but we have to deal with the consequences.
Unfortunately, whether or not she decides to keep the baby is up to the girl you slept with.
If she does, you have a legal obligation to support the child, regardless of whether or not you are involved in the baby’s life.
This is detailed in Unplanned Pregnancy in Support Packs.
Think seriously about telling your girlfriend what happened.
If another woman has a baby, you have to clean up.
This upsetting news had better come from you.
But if both partners are committed, the relationship can survive incidents like this and even go deeper.
If you decide not to tell your girlfriend, try to learn from your mistakes.
Pour your energy into your relationship, and if you feel something is missing, work it out with your partner.
My support pack Can You Get Over Cheating? explains this in detail.